Sicilian Folklore and Fairytale Worlds: Enchantment with a sense of humor

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Charles Perrault is my favorite teller of fairytales. Whenever I read his versions of “Cinderella” or “The Sleeping Beauty in the Wood” I am convinced that the world of enchantment is real. There is a quality to the narrative that resonates with my need to imagine a world where the good and beautiful overcome all adversaries and difficulties.

One of my favorite translations of Perrault’s fairytales contains illustrations by Sir Arthur Quiller-Couch. This particular volume contains the essence of the world of beauty that my Mother and I would converse about during our afternoon teas. These tea times were an escape from the present and gave us a chance to enter a realm apart from the mundane concerns of housework, bargain shopping and current events. For an hour or so we could discuss how we felt when seeing the Dance of the Sugar Plum Fairies from “The Nutcracker Suite” and from there imagine what kind of a story Perrault would have created from characters inspired by the Sugar Plum Fairies and how Quiller-Couch would depict them. These tea times not only provided my Mom with relief from her anxieties but were very stimulating to my own creative projects.

From early childhood I also absorbed my Mother’s preference for the atmosphere and qualities that come across in French literature as well. Although neither of us read French, there is a distinctive quality that comes through a good translation. In my early teens I was already reading “Madame Bovary” and “The Lady with the Camellias”.

We also shared an interest in the world of the Parisian demi-monde and the salons of influential women of the 18th century. Our other shared interest was the world of Classical Mythology. We’d love to discuss the similarities and differences between the Greek and Roman versions of a myth as well as their deities.

For all that, though, I never once had an interest in Italian or Sicilian folklore or fairytales. There was nothing to deter me from exploring it if I wanted to, it’s just that I delved deeply into what was already available to me at home.

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Sicily, Land of Persephone and the Entrance to Hades

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My Mom and Maternal Grandmother Josie familiarized me with the Italian language as a child. Once I was old enough to talk in complete sentences Mom included me in all the discussions she and Grandma Josie had as they went between long stretches in English that were interspersed with colorful Italian phrases. I learned quickly that “mezza stunada” was a way of saying something like a person is punchy or not very on the ball. Another phrase I heard often amongst my Grandma Josie’s sisters was “tutta sporca”.

“Tutta sporca” was something of an insult on the housekeeping abilities of another woman in the community. It meant “very dirty”. That was a terrible insult to anyone whom you had visited. The Italian immigrant and Italian-American housewives of Dyker Heights, where we lived, would be hurt enough to stop talking to you if they heard that. Great pride was taken in having a clean and orderly house inside and out. Whenever my Grandmother talked about someone who was a show-off and busybody she’d say their house was probably “tutta sporca”. The implication was that if the neighbor paid enough attention to cleaning her own house she’d have no time to gossip about anyone else.

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Before Dorothy met Isidore/Irving: The Callahan and Kennedy Families 1918-1930

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I have been searching for many weeks to find out what happened to Great Aunt Dorothy and her mother (Genevieve Kennedy) and brother (Thomas A. Kennedy, Jr.) after the 1920 Federal Census.

In part I wanted to know how did Great Aunt Dorothy meet Great Uncle Irving Flashenberg. Where would an Irish-American girl from New York City meet an Austrian-Hungarian-American Jewish boy from Brooklyn?

They grew up in different boroughs and would have attended different schools. They attended different houses of worship and celebrated different holidays. The only thing they would have had in common was their economic background. Dorothy lived in the household of her Callahan Grandparents where her Grandfather was a house painter. Irving’s father worked a variety of factory jobs and also did manual labor when not employed at a factory. Did their blue collar backgrounds provide some common ground? Or was it more of an attraction, a love that was independent of all that?

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April 9, 2013: A phone call from Sybil

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On Monday, April 8th I was looking through the Public Trees at Ancestry and found one that attracted my interest. It was for the Aronowitz/Maller/Kling Family Tree. There were family photos included for the family of Rabbi Benjamin Aronowitz. In the profile of his son David Aronowitz (Arens) was the name of his wife and a photo–Her name was Belle.

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Past and Present Meet: Reunion with my Cousin Jackie

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Time has not diminished the sisterly affection between my Cousin Jackie and I. It was alive and well at our reunion on April 19, 2013.

I have been very absorbed in my work since late March and researching my Paternal Grandpa Al’s family line is limited to weekends right now. I’ll post more about that soon. I’m finding Ancestry’s search capabilities very frustrating and have developed some workarounds that are rather complicated but get results.

While work has been very busy, I’ve also had a most powerful surge of emotions brought on my a series of remarkable events that has brought me into touch with the paternal line of my family once more.

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The Arens Family: Belle and David 1930-1939

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I haven’t been posting recently because I am gathering census records and ordering vital records for my paternal Grandfather’s family. I find that the blog entries have deeper meaning after I’ve absorbed as much information as I can about the family and comingled the findings with my thoughts and reflections about them.

During yesterday’s session at Ancestry, I began to set up my family tree. The basic structure for my Paternal Grandparents is now in place. The next phase is to attach the census records. After that I plan to scan the vital records and attach those also.

Good things continue to happen as I go about this day by day. I found photos on a public family tree for Great Aunt Belle and Great Uncle David. They are part of a family tree created by a relative of David Arens. This relative is in touch with Sybil, the daughter of Belle and David Arens.

Sybil was my Dad’s first cousin. My Grandma Bessie was Belle’s sister and Sybil’s Aunt. David’s relative and I had a productive email exchange yesterday.

I learned that David’s family name was originally Aronowitz. I also have the names of his parents and siblings along with a precious photo of David with his brothers and Father at a Seder. There is also one photo of Belle from 1939. She was indeed the beauty Grandma Bessie and my Dad told me she was.

Sybil’s relative has forwarded our emails and my contact info to her. I hope they will contact me if they have any need for documentation or want to exchange info.

Maybe Sybil remembers Tessie Mund and can also tell me what happened to Great Uncle Irving and Great Aunt Dorothy.

Hope springs anew and so far this Spring season has been amazing, awesome, humbling and reaffirming.

Great Uncle David’s photos: http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/20934819/person/1037560715?ssrc=

Great Aunt Belle’s photo: http://trees.ancestry.com/tree/20934819/person/1886285342

Bright Spring, New Beginnings

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I am sitting here completely amazed and hopeful as a result of all that has happened since I began blogging about my family and giving time as a Memorial Manager at FindAGrave.

This Easter is truly a time of rebirth for me and a day to share good news.

And it all came about because of Grandma Bessie! The events unfolded just as if she had been right here working in the background to change the situation and get things moving. She was a real nudge at times, especially when she wanted to see good things happen for her Grandchildren.

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Touching my Great Grandmother through the flow of time

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I’ve been trying to find some way to sum up my feelings and thoughts as I turn from researching the Flashenbergs, Munds, and Arens for now. At some point I will once more immerse myself in this stream which is part of the greater family blood line. There is never an end to the search or the finding but I do believe there should be a rhythm to the pursuit and a flexibility to perceive when it is time to shine a light in a different direction.

In the past there had been a great feeling of the unknown and a frustration when it came to understanding my Father, my paternal Grandparents and who came before them. Last week I revisited the Census records stored in My Shoebox file at Ancestry and discovered something that changed some of that.
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Thank you to my Blog Followers

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Thank you Luanne and Deborah for considering me not only a good blog friend but as one who has a family history blog worth checking out.

Here are a few things about me:

My Favorite Genealogy and History Blogs

AlwaysBackroads
Donna Catterick

http://alwaysbackroads.wordpress.com

PacificParatrooper
Everett Smith (gpcox)

http://pacificparatrooper.wordpress.com

A Hundred Years Ago
Sheryl Lazarus

http://ahundredyearsago.com

“Greatest Generation” Life Lessons
Judy Guion

http://greatestgenerationlessons.wordpress.com

Genealogy Lady
Deborah Sweeney

http://genealogylady.net

The Family Kalamazoo
Luanne (currentdescendent)

http://thefamilykalamazoo.wordpress.com/

Our Ancestors
Pierre Legace

http://steanne.wordpress.com


All in the family….a few things about my ancestors and I

A love of fashion, tailoring, garment construction or patternmaking. While I have the blessing to pursue these skills as a means of artistic expression, my ancestors had to labor long and hard hours in the garment industry and fashion center of New York City and Brooklyn.

Paternal Line

Great Great Aunt Helen Flashenberg (sister to my paternal Great Grandfather Benjamin Flashenberg)
Profession: Dressmaker (1920 Federal Census)

Great Aunt Belle Flashenberg Arens (daughter of Benjamin and Tillie Flashenberg)
Profession: Milliner (1920 Fed Census). Buyer, Lord & Taylor (according to Belle’s sister Bessie).

Genevieve Callahan Kennedy, mother of Great Aunt Dorothy Kennedy Flashenberg
Profession: Dressmaker (1900 Federal Census)

Grandma Bessie (Blanche)Flashenberg Torregrossa
Profession: Showroom Model/Clerical Worker, Furrier, NYC. (according to Grandma Bessie, my Mom and Bessie’s daughter (my Auntie) Maureen. Early 1920s, prior to her marriage in 1926.

Michael Mund, relative to Great Grandfather Benjamin Flashenberg
Profession: Tailor, Sewing Machine Operator (1905-1940 NYS and Federal Census)

As I begin researching my paternal Grandpa Al Torregrossa I’ve found some Federal Census records where his sisters also worked as dressmakers, shop assistants and milliners.

Maternal Line

Grandma Josie Muro Serrapede
Profession: Custom dressmaker, factory sewing machine operator, piece worker, home worker in Brooklyn. Active 1930-1976.

And my part in this…

Graduated two year custom dressmaking and patternmaking course, French Fashion Academy, New York City, 1983.
Cherry Blossoms, Original Designs in Oriental* Silks, part time custom dressmaking, 1983-1985.
Full-time employment garment center 1983: Order processor for knitwear manufacturer (Jan-May, 1983). Quality Control/Workroom Assistant, Evening gown manufacturer (June-Sept. 1983).
After nine months of low wages, frustration and lack of job satisfaction, I said good-bye to full-time employment in the garment center and headed to Wall Street where I began a 20 year career as an Administrative Professional.
In 1985 I got tired of hearing the phrase, “I adore it (meaning the dress, skirt or blouse) but can’t you make the price a little lower?” The answer to that was a resounding no, so I closed up Cherry Blossoms and continued my love of dressmaking for myself and my Mom.

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*In 1983 the word Asian had yet to be used in place of Oriental.

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